If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart...
If you find someone in loves with you and you dont love him/her, feel honoured that Love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return, do not take advantage, do not cause pain...
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then Love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning.
You will know in time...
Remember that you dont choose love, Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to verflowing, then reach out and give it away...
How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys as you, even if our life and ways are different...
